You don't deserve to be abused...And Other Things To Tell My Daughter. Another illustration for Huffington Post, written by Deborah Fulsang. This article left me feeling sad. It's heavy stuff to have to think about, not to mention having this type of discussion with my own daughter. What angers me most about the abuse that happens to women is that it's still happening! The more we all talk about it, the more we can be vigilant and look out for one another.